A Boost

“Who needs an operation to be beautiful and handsome?” my son quoted a day before. So i asked myself, Yes, who needs a lift up operation for a change. How will this effect human being from being a loser to a feeling of champion. How about guilt? Will it make them comfortable and happy and brought them to contentment. Or will it bring them to change more after a period of attaining what they want, needed more and wanting more.


I have shown a picture puzzle to my son. A picture of nose, pair of eyes, lips, shape of face, and ears. I told him not to put it together just look at it individually. He said the owner of this face looks horrible, and ugly. So I asked “ How could he tell?” He said nose is flat, eyes is small and squinted and so on and so forth. I told him to put it all together. And after a while he gasped in disbelief. He knows the guy.

I asked him then, “ Now tell me, does he looks bad?” he said “No!”

“Why?”

He said well, girls really wanted to hook him up. He is the smartest boy in the class. Actually top 1 in his section. He is over confident and he carries himself dignantly. And he said I hate him sometimes for being a machoism ass.

In short, he is a guy hunk.

Hmmmm. If this guy doesn’t have a confidence over himself, sure he will want an operation. Atleast to boost his ego, and add something more and remove something less....

With respect to his feature, he is not perfect. There is no trace of prettiness in him. But how on earth if he passes by, you could hear teens ohhhhs! And ahhhhs!.

First, he is neat. Really neat. From his hair to his toes.

Second, he is smart. In a bunch of hunkies, he can stand out.

Next, he has ego, a personality, and a 500 degrees of confidence.

Who will recognize the imperfectness? No one.

Sometimes we overlooked what nature gives us. We lost the sense of contentment and confidence and end up in an operating room. And then vanity consumed our hearts. Darkness fell upon and every time we look at ourselves in the mirror, we feel horrible. Sometimes feels guilty of not doing this and what is supposed to.

So i asked my son if he felt insecure with “Ilaw” name of the teenboy every time he passes by his room or with the same room? His replied was “no, mom.....I am pretty good with myself...Girls go gaga with me too..I have my own style....

So, what’s next? Simple. What do you feel after going to a saloon? The moment you step out of the saloon, i know you feel contented, pretty and sexy. I hope everyone will hold that moment. And that moment should last. If you are fat and wanted to really look slimmer, begin to discipline yourself. No one will slap your flab to get you move. Always start inside. If you are fat and feel sexy, you look good. Actually look good. I have a friend who doesn’t mind about being fat. And she does look sexy. She is a good dancer and can create a vibrant ambiance. You could feel her personality. And since she is happy within, it glows outside. That is what i am aftering. An aura of simplicity and vibrance. Abounding of self respect and dignity.

So who needs an operation?

As wise man quoted once....” man is always wanting....if it is hot...he wants cold..if it is cold...he wants it hot...always wanting what is not...”



God bless you all...